By Jan Blackstone
Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years. He has adult children from a previous marriage. We have a 9 and 10 year old together. His adult children have begun to ask why their dad and mom got a divorce. Their mom told them that they grew apart and that their dad had issues. In truth, she had an affair. That was the issue, and it's making my husband look like the bad guy.